If you are not here today you could not have been here yesterday and I NEVER want to hear.... "You should have been here yesterday." When in doubt go fishing.
Teach a child to fish and they will never go hungry. Teach an adult to fish and they will always have something of value to teach their children.
We need more father's teaching their daughter's how to fish so our sons will have someone worthwhile to marry, date.... or at least hook up with.